Written by: Sarah (McFarlin) Heffington  

Proverbs 27:17- "Iron Sharpens Iron, so One Friend Sharpens Another."

I vividly remember the first time at Lipscomb when someone asked me one of the scariest questions I have ever been asked: "How can I pray for you specifically?"  For some of you, that is a normal question that you are eager to answer, and grateful that a considerate friend would even ask.  In my mind (as I bet some of you too feel this way), it meant total fear as I perceived I was about to have to reveal some sort of weakness or flaw.  

The definition of Vulnerability is a state of exposure. Part of being an Athlete is always wanting to show the world your "A-Game", maybe that's why some of us struggle with being vulnerable in any capacity.  Growing up in a very conservative church, my impression was if you were not struggling with anything "Major" then you didn't go "down the aisle", you didn't ask for prayers, and you didn't show a lot of signs of vulnerability.  Right or wrong, that was my perception, until Lipscomb Athletics.  

Like a lot of athletes, when people ask who had the biggest impact and roles in my development, it is without a doubt my coaches and numerous teammates I have had over the course of my life.  Sports and my spiritual journey have always gone "hand in hand".  I have been overly blessed that God saw fit to put some incredible people on my path at LU to help shape and mold me and who care enough about me to continue to do so. I bet He is putting some vital people in your path right now. 

I am reminded how much time Jesus spent with his disciples and followers and how he experienced human vulnerability himself and with those he was around. The Savior of the World thought community was that important throughout his short ministry on Earth.  I encourage all athletes to take full advantage of all the people that care about you and your journey.  No matter how strong or all together you think you have it by yourself, you cannot live ultimate Kingdom life without being somewhat vulnerable.  Vulnerability does not have to always mean exposure of weaknesses.  Part of vulnerability is just being willing to share your life story- sharing how Christ has impacted and changed your life to others who might just need to hear a word of encouragement. Vulnerability is openness.  Reach out to coaches, teammates, teachers, former athletes and ask for advice, ask about their stories, struggles and successes.  

The way God works in the lives around you will ultimately shape your life in ways unimaginable and strengthen your faith! (Proverbs 12:15 " A wise man listens to advice").  Being vulnerable often takes courage and is essential for Kingdom living. If there is one thing I can encourage you with, it is to live a life in pursuit of authenticity over perfection. Four years will fly by, so be somewhat vulnerable and invest in and connect to those around you!

Food for Thought:  What holds you back from being more vulnerable and why?  Do you perceive vulnerability as a negative or positive?

Challenge: Ask someone today how you can pray for them specifically.